Black Folks why??

So today me and My homie RM was strolling at a local shopping mall. We went into a store to look around and all of a sudden this Black girl was cursing out the cashier!!!

F this and F thank, B this and B that.... and there were a group of white girls behind her who appeared to be her friends. Absolutely not! These young girls were cracking up at how CRAZY this black girl acting. I mean I felt so bad for the cashier...not because she got cussed out but more so that she couldn't whoop that A$$ because she was there working!

R.I.P Michael J. Jackson

Wow I dont even know what to say...

Even though at a young age of 50, finally Michael you can rest in peace. My love and prayers goes out to the family of the King of Pop!

My father

If any one knows me, they would know that I am a big Daddy's girl!

My father is a protector, a provider, a supporter, a cry on your shoulder when your man upset u'er, a listener.

He is not perfect but he is the best damn role model of what a man should be in my eyes. Daddy always takes care of home before himself.. which adds to why above all the things he is...

HE IS MY BEST FRIEND! Loves my Daddy!

Happy Father's Day to all the Fathers who practice the life that a Man Preaches.

Credit any one?

I never really knew or understood what credit was until have I graduated from high school. At 18 I got my first credit card. The older I turned I realize how important your credit history and your credit score is.

I wonder if alot of young adults are or becoming interested in their credit scores. I see a big interest in fashion, beauty and possessions but what about the possession of Owning a Home? or starting a business?

Even though my student loan debt is sky high, I will continue to pray and put my trust in God that I will be able to pay it off and achieve my goals.

Are you focused on ur credit/credit scores?

So Whats in your closet?

I sooo need to do a year cleaning! haha of course we heard of spring cleaning but I need a year cleaning..I have alot of things to get rid of once and for all. Do you ever have something (big or small) that u just tag along with u because u may wear it one day or it could match with this even though u seem to never wear the item anyway? yeah I have alot of those lol. I plan to give alot away especially to those who really need it.

As I look at my footwear I realized the best and most comfy shoes I have are from nine west, Steve Madden, Michael Kors and Sam&Libby. I love love shoes and I plan to stick to 2 companies while I am still struggling post Master's young woman.

So whats in your closet? and if u have a favorite shoe company or line what is it? are there any shoe companies that you want to explore?

I want to explore Betsey Johnson!

Idolizing not allowed

For a while I have noticed that people have a way of idolizing others which I believe you should NOT. Its funny people would place folks so high and mighty and once they do something that is outside of their fabricated "norm" these folks become the worst, snobby, stuck up, etc... Um maybe if u didn't place them so high on your priority list you wouldn't feel sad or mad when they disappoint u..
This is what makes me think about how God (or a higher being in your beliefs) feels when we prioritizes everything else First besides God? I'm sure not happy.

I used to find myself highly upset with people when they hurt my feelings or disrespect me on any level because I placed them high in my life. But now I as get older, I realize that people are exactly what they are and no one is perfect. Therefore I expect the worst from folks and the hope for the best From God, Amen.

Crappy Weather=Crappy Mood

Hey...the weather is upsetting me. I know that its all God's Will so I wont complain to much but it just makes me appreciate the Sunshine even more. Which brings me to how I been feeling..
PMS doesnt help my situation at the moment however its like crappy weather, crappy mood and sad face :(
I'm really crushed right now because of our health care system however I know God will see me thru. Its like if u get sick and it's an emergency if u dont have insurance you are @$$ed out!! People are in debt for being sick? I dont understand and probably never will..

Only prayer will help me cheer up..just alot on my mind, alot going through my head.

Wedding in the Roc

This past weekend I went up to Rochester, NY with the honey. His cousin got married and it was beautiful..
I love weddings I think its an amazing thing and I look forward to this day one day.

What are others feelings on marriage? I mean is it something that u look forward to or is it something that u dont care about? (rather u do or dont get married)

wooo its been a while Junio is here

So June is here and I needed to make a post...
I hope everyone had a great memorial day and had fun on any vacations they have went on. I didnt have any vacays so I have just been coolin out...

something that plays in my head over and over is the difference between being honest with someone and being mean. Yes I understand the truth can and probably will hurt but if I dont ask for your two cents about something does it count as being mean? for example lets say..a guy ask a girl "hey does this color look good on me?" and the girl says no its not appealing..thats honesty could hurt but he asked for it.. now second scenario... girls says " you know that color does nothing for you, u dont look good in it" and the guy is like "wth???" that was honest but in my opinion mean.

anywayzzzzz

one of my diamonds is moving to charleston, s.c. and I am soooo gonna miss u. I been holding back tears for when I'm by myself to be strong for her. Its like I met her in 5th grad and became friends in 7th..so we are talkin about 11-12 years of sisterhood.
NY is getting too expensive..yes there is no place like NY but u know what I'm sure others places will make me if not as happy probably even more happier. I dont know but She is in my prayers..

Time flies...june is here!