Saturday, February 28, 2009

New Gym Membership

So I have a new gym membership and I am soooo this morning I went to the gym and my body feels so great. I cant definitely understand why peeps go all the time because its truly refreshing. One of the goals I have is too flatten my belly. I dont need to lose weight however if 5 or 10 pounds come off so be it..

Thursday, February 26, 2009


So this morning I got a phone call...

I GOT A JOB!! I am so happy and God is soooo good. and this is my blessing set for me according to God's plan. I am soo happy and if anyone pays attention to my posts, u will know that the job situation has been crazy for me. however my wonderful bf, friends and family assured me that, I was not forgotten and I would be ok..thanks for all the support!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Do you take Responsibility?

Something that people need to practice is taking their own responsibility...we tend to look to others to solve our problems or we blame others for our actions when in reality, we need to fix ourselves before fixing anything else.

I mean nothing is wrong with seeking support from family, friends, lovers etc...however they can only hold your hand but so much, you have to rise up to your own challenges and learn to accept and deal with them. Any issues or problems that we have, we have to be first to say I want to change or I don't want to live this way any more first before telling someone to help us.
Life is about having experiences not regrets, we have to learn from them and evaluate how our life is going to be different because of the experience and continue to live. You only have one life and we should want to make the best of it. Life is entirely too short to walk around with anger in your you really want to die mad? or have the ones that love you remember you as being depressed or angry? I hope the answer is no.

so why not today make change in ur life...Do something positive or make posititve actions..and in the near future look at yourself first before putting blame on anything or anyone else for your dilemas...
one love

Friday, February 20, 2009

What do you see in the mirror?

Do you like what you see in the mirror? are you satisfied or it will just do?..well does it even matter to you?
I notice that I am getting older and alot of things I did when I was younger can not happen now in my adult life.
I used to be able to eat alot of food and not gain weight, during my adolescent years I yearned to gain weight because I felt I was too skinny. I am still a small frame woman however after reading a health book, I realize that I am not giving my all to being healthy.
1. I do attend the gym at my school but I need to be more consistent
2. I need to practice cooking, so that I can cook for myself instead of relying on fast food.
3. I also need to eat more natural foods.
4. I read in Essence Magazine that veggies need to be the MAJORITY on my plate, they will be easy because I love vegetables :D
5. DRINK MORE WATER! I do but I can always intake in more
6. The most important, LEARN TO BE STRESS FREE

I believe that with theses goals I can remain healthy

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Momma's 60th

So my main gurlfriend aka Ma, turned 60 on the 17th. I am very blessed to have both her and my father in my life. I love them very much I would trade them for anything. So Daddy and I took her to Ayhan's Shish Kebab..Yummy!!!

Back from the Roc....

so this vday weekend I spent it with honey to visit my future in-laws (teehee) :D.
I had such a great time and I felt right at home. His father's side of the family mostly reside upstate new york, ohio and maryland. However for Granddad's 75th bday everyone made an appearance :D..

As I observed his relatives, I thought to myself...I'm not that close to my father's side of the family. I mean I know that it can happen but it saddens me that I know my mother's side like the back of my hand however, I could be in the same room with a cousin from my daddy's side of the family and not even know it. I mean it is what it is, I didnt make it that way... however I promised myself and honey that our child(s) will know both sides of the family! :D

ps- honey gave me this art work two years ago for my bday..I love black art!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

day off from work catch-up!

I know its been a lil while since I posted..well I'm back :D. Today I had off from work and I am happy about that, therefore I decided to make a post.
I got my grades back from my exam and I passed 3 out 4 sections..I was a little upset at first and then realized...wait a minute, it could have been worst. I could have only passed 1 out 4 however God is good and that didnt happen. So in august I just have to take one more section and then I will receive my diploma and I know I'm going to ACE that ish! lol

So I followed the review of one of my favorite blogs, Conjured Perceptions on the karma soap at Lush...Gurl u were on the money and I now know that ur reviews are the Ish! lol :D Karma soap smells so good. I loved it so much that I had to buy the Karma Kreme which is amazing! I'm soo happy about this. It does cost some $$ however its well worth it.

vday this year
Well the honey and I are going to visit his family upstate..I'm excited for that and looking forward to seeing more of his fam. his fam is giving a party for his grandfather so that will be nice. So we are not gonna go crazy about vday this year however the love we share..Its Valentine's day everyday ♥

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Random Thoughts

I'm doing ok. I stayed home this friday because I was not feeling too well.. but I'm better now :D

Still in search..sound like a broken record huh? but I have a feeling things are about to change sooner than I think :D

The honey, family, bff's
Everyone is good. Deeply in love...the best parents ever! and the best friends whom I consider my diamonds are great too!

So this past tuesday I got my hair straightened..I like it. I'm still trying to grow these layers out..but none the less I love the results. Gotta love a CHI..well worth the money. I want to invest in the one that my stylist uses in day when I have money to spend I will...