Dont talk about it.Be About it

We have all heard this expression before..but have we all done it? Believe it or not sometimes this can be easier said than done. As my birthday approaches I just realize that alot of things done in my younger years will not fly for years to come (God Willing).

By 25 I want to have alot to show for myself. I want to be able to look back and laugh about stressing over stuff that at the time I have no control over. God is good and will Provide please believe.

Always Say I love You

I know many watched the Memorial Service for MJ today...I too was able to watch the re-run...I cried. I am the type of person who does tell the ones I love and hold dear to my heart how much I love them because I feel you can never say those few words enough.

So many argue and fuss over simple things. So many relationships, family ties are broken because of confusion and pain..some times you have to ask yourself is it worth it? OK we always need time to relax and communicate like "adults" but don't let the problems fester..you gotta pray harder!

I love my family, boyfriend and best friends and they know this and I hope they always remember that.

People who do not realize they have something good

It puzzles me sometimes when I hear women (particularly) sound like a broken record in regards to finding a "good" man.

I mean I know a situation where a young lady and her children are being taken care of by her husband who is the father of the children. I dont know about anyone else but this is becoming rare in our generation.

I do not believe that a man who takes responsibility for his wife and kids should get pat on the back because in my opinion its a given. However, the wife and children need to appreciate daddy for taking care of home!

Some people do not realize how good they have it until one day it is truly gone. I'm happy and my honey bun knows he is appreciated and down the road when we do get married w/ kids daddy wont only get the "big piece of chicken" but he will know that he is loved and wanted.

Happy 4th!!

Happy 4th of JULY!!!!

I hope everyone enjoy the holiday and please please be safe!

Black Folks why??

So today me and My homie RM was strolling at a local shopping mall. We went into a store to look around and all of a sudden this Black girl was cursing out the cashier!!!

F this and F thank, B this and B that.... and there were a group of white girls behind her who appeared to be her friends. Absolutely not! These young girls were cracking up at how CRAZY this black girl acting. I mean I felt so bad for the cashier...not because she got cussed out but more so that she couldn't whoop that A$$ because she was there working!

R.I.P Michael J. Jackson

Wow I dont even know what to say...

Even though at a young age of 50, finally Michael you can rest in peace. My love and prayers goes out to the family of the King of Pop!

My father

If any one knows me, they would know that I am a big Daddy's girl!

My father is a protector, a provider, a supporter, a cry on your shoulder when your man upset u'er, a listener.

He is not perfect but he is the best damn role model of what a man should be in my eyes. Daddy always takes care of home before himself.. which adds to why above all the things he is...

HE IS MY BEST FRIEND! Loves my Daddy!

Happy Father's Day to all the Fathers who practice the life that a Man Preaches.

Credit any one?

I never really knew or understood what credit was until have I graduated from high school. At 18 I got my first credit card. The older I turned I realize how important your credit history and your credit score is.

I wonder if alot of young adults are or becoming interested in their credit scores. I see a big interest in fashion, beauty and possessions but what about the possession of Owning a Home? or starting a business?

Even though my student loan debt is sky high, I will continue to pray and put my trust in God that I will be able to pay it off and achieve my goals.

Are you focused on ur credit/credit scores?

So Whats in your closet?

I sooo need to do a year cleaning! haha of course we heard of spring cleaning but I need a year cleaning..I have alot of things to get rid of once and for all. Do you ever have something (big or small) that u just tag along with u because u may wear it one day or it could match with this even though u seem to never wear the item anyway? yeah I have alot of those lol. I plan to give alot away especially to those who really need it.

As I look at my footwear I realized the best and most comfy shoes I have are from nine west, Steve Madden, Michael Kors and Sam&Libby. I love love shoes and I plan to stick to 2 companies while I am still struggling post Master's young woman.

So whats in your closet? and if u have a favorite shoe company or line what is it? are there any shoe companies that you want to explore?

I want to explore Betsey Johnson!

Idolizing not allowed

For a while I have noticed that people have a way of idolizing others which I believe you should NOT. Its funny people would place folks so high and mighty and once they do something that is outside of their fabricated "norm" these folks become the worst, snobby, stuck up, etc... Um maybe if u didn't place them so high on your priority list you wouldn't feel sad or mad when they disappoint u..
This is what makes me think about how God (or a higher being in your beliefs) feels when we prioritizes everything else First besides God? I'm sure not happy.

I used to find myself highly upset with people when they hurt my feelings or disrespect me on any level because I placed them high in my life. But now I as get older, I realize that people are exactly what they are and no one is perfect. Therefore I expect the worst from folks and the hope for the best From God, Amen.