so what now?

Um.... I'm getting so aggravated that I havent had a call back yet with jobs. I will keep praying and hopefully God will lead me in the right direction. However I am determine to continue my hard work. I need more money so I can save to get my own place and so I can start paying back some student loans...we shall see.

Lover is MIA

Well literally, My beau is in Miami with his friends and I miss him already. When I get a new gig I promise myself that I will have alot of weekend getaways. So he will be back on monday but this does give me sometime to have to myself so its all good.

So I purchased some shorts from express( a fushia pair and olive green pair), a Polo for my mom and I( I purchased a black polo with fushia logo and My mom has grey with a blue logo) and a silk shirt( I cant find pics of the silk blouse on line).

I cant wait to wear them...and I can't wait for the summer weather :D My bday is in July and I'm gettin excited just thinking about it. Yep exactly two months away :D

Check out the website www.expressfashion.com

Ladies listen up!

Time and time I tune to the situations and struggles that our sisters are going thru and I feel the need to write a blog about it. One of the major struggles that we have involve men.

Ladies we need to remember to love ourselves first. When we love ourselves we dont have to cater to the nonsense of theses grown ass boys. When you love yourself, you will know that you dont have to use sex to get you love. Ladies if a Real Man loves you, he will not pressure you to having sex or include you in unneccessary drama. Ladies you gotta love ya self so that we can stop this cycle. And also ladies you do not have to dress scandelous or act promiscous so that you can chase after a man, trust me a real worth you while will be sent to you from a higher being. Now its up to you to take the blessing that comes your way or to just let another good guy pass you by because you rather deal with a man that forever makes you cry. Your choice.

Ladies we cannot settle. If you are not happy then do something about it. Maybe its time for us sisters, to look beyond our past and others to blame for our hardships in the present. For example, some women grew up without a father figure in their life, as an inspiring psychologist I know its hard to just let go however you have to forgive them. and when you forgive its not for them its for you. I mean there are soo many women that refuse to have strong relationships because of their relationship with their dad, there are women who are promiscous to get the affection of a man.....It does sadden me to know these factors that make alot of sisters the way they are today, but ladies let it go. Dont go on with ur life feeled with drama that deals with tired ass boys... or dont belittle yourself to a be a thrill for a dude u barely know because thats all you know to do. Love ya self Ma, Seriously!

Lastly my sisters, please conduct yourself as a Woman at all times. The society look at women as sex object and beauty trophies. We are more than that, we are stronger mothers, daughters, sisters, friends, lovers, caregivers, educators and so on.....

If when reading this blog touches a nerve for you, dont look at it as a disrespect or "calling you out" listen closely to what I'm saying. You are more and bigger than what society says. And prove them wrong by loving the higher being and yourself first. I promise you ladies there is a man out there for you, who will appreciate you everyday and treat you like the queen that you are if you let him... but you don't have to change your moral feelings to chance after him...be patient.... he will find you.
One Love

Grades are In!

So this semester my gpa was a 3.575 and cummulative gpa is 3.450. Yay!!! thanks for the prayers and kind words and I am sooo grateful!
B+ intro to forensices
B+ research methods
A- Juvenile delinquency
A Forensic Assessment

Hmmmm not to bad!

First year of graduate school (Check) Searching for a new job (GRRR)

Thanks to God! School is out for a few months I am sooo excited :D. God is sooo good. When I have all of my grades I will post my progress. Now bigger things.... finding a new job. I have a bachelor of arts degree in Psychology with a minor in religious studies. I seriously need trip the amount of money that I do make at this part time job. Any suggestions? So whats next on the agenda of life
1) get new job
2) save save save money
3) have an awesome birthday
4) go to Las Vegas with the beau
5) Finish my last semester of grad school
6) Possibly new living location? (not too sure about this one)
7) Save Save Save MONEY

school is almost over

Thank God!!! I am sooooo tired of school right now. I must say this was my toughest sem of my whole college career lol but I am thankful it is done. so next thing on the list is to find a new job and make some more money, keep me in ur prayers. Since I will be done with school I decided that I will be joining a gym. Either Xsport or LA fitness. The S.O. gets a discount at la fitness with his job sooo we shall see.

My hair is getting healthier. I still see some straight pieces but my next trim should really eliminate those :D..... thats it for now but I promise to those who do take the time out to visit my blog spot I will update more frequently in a couple of weeks