Trust, something that is not easily given or received and if broken it takes forever to achieve. A question to ask is how long does it take the heart to heal? You have some people that have the eye for an eye attititude and some that say they can trust you but still judge you based on your mishaps. As adults we must learn to forgive and live. Yes I know this is easier said then done but think while you are busy being stressed about how someone hurt you, that someone is living their life. I say forgive and live not forgive and forget because thats mostly where peeps mess up at. its the forgetting part that is hard for people. I dont think you should forget because obviously you should not allow it to happen again. however if you forgive and live, you are accepting that someone screwed up and you are going to slowly but surely forgive and continue to live. what do you think?